How to Get the Girl of Your Dreams – Guest Blog by Human Behaviour Psychologist, Stuart Kennedy
Hello there my name is Stuart Kennedy; I am Alexander’s younger brother and also human behaviour psychologist. I was turned onto psychology when Alex was first diagnosed with schizophrenia and I heard certain terms and phrases thrown around in conversations, so I did my homework and learned what they meant and several years later I am a fully fledged HBP. I heard about the noise my brother was making on his blog and I thought I would do the brotherly thing and add insult to injury along with my two cents. Hope you enjoy.
I am here to tell all of the LOVE CRAZIED DUDES out there; I have found your holy grail. Now I know at one time or another within our life’s we fall hard for “That one.” Beautiful, no word comparison, I hear fifties music in my head when she is near, she makes me want to watch chick flicks – Girl. I am here to tell you how to get her and it is really simple and short.
Now I know with other websites or advice you hear, “Some people have it and some people don’t.” Or “Beautiful people go with beautiful people and the rest can wrestle together.” (Well I made that last one up….) Forget all of that. I will give you one scenario and why it will work, I will show you the psychology of it, something those other sites forget to tell you because they are not me. And all I need from you is to keep reading and to look deep within yourselves and pull out a slither of CONFIDENCE – For once in your life, fight yourself, for something you want!
(We Kennedy’s pride ourselves on our talent, can you tell? Haha!)
Picture this… You are casually walking around the mall or somewhere else and there she is, TIME STOPS, she is sitting with a group of her friends, probably giggling about some movie or some lad. Now you stroll over to her and lean in so everyone at that table can see you; you stare into her peepers and you say these words.
“Can I just say; there is no one on this planet that is as beautiful as you within my eyes.”
Now walk away, do not turn back… Play it cool.
Okay, granted at this time you may be laughed at (I am 100% certain she will not be the one laughing, she will be taking your words in. And women like guys to notice them in seas of other fish.) If she knows you exist. But here is the clever part to my method; you don’t have to be a good-looking dude for this to work, because YOU WERE THE ONE TO SAY IT TO HER!
Not her boyfriend, not other stylish guys… But that guy who has nothing but his heart to give her.
Now she will return home that night after joking about that guy who said those words and she sits next to in Math, she will lay in her bed and THINK ABOUT YOU those words will be swimming within her thoughts, thus a chain reaction has been formed, a bond has been made, all because you reached into your soul for a little confidence.
Now if my powers of observation have taught me anything, the next time you two meet will be on her terms, not yours, if you two bump into one another it is usually because she has come and tracked you down… FOR MORE NICE THINGS TO SAY TO HER!
My logic is sound on this, trust me. Oh yeah, always play safe. 😉
I really hope my relationship advice has helped you, I will be back in the future for other guest posts on my brother’s blog to give you folks some more.
I also hope you continue to carry on reading Alex’s work, I can see greatness in this one… (Sorry, an old family joke. We’ll tell you later.)